(Pardon the metaphor, but it seemed timely.)

The shift from our bedside surrender to church leadership was challenging and requires, yes even today, God-given endurance.

The change was painful but prepared us, not unlike an athlete training and conditioning for a race. But then again, isn’t that what we were doing? (Hebrews 12:1 – Thinking about that “cloud of witnesses” makes our toughest critic seem much less intimidating!)

Undoubtedly ministry comes with watchful eyes. I’m thankful for the ones that watch for a need to be met or encouragement to be given. However, we all know, as with the crowd in a stadium, not everyone is your biggest fan. We’ll never forget some of the most profound advice we were given after the occurrence of a deep and public church hurt. “People are watching for your response. You may not realize it, but you now have more opportunity than ever to minister to and teach our church.” That advice still rings true.

We know having so many watchful eyes can be difficult, but please don’t miss this, responses provide an opportunity to teach and, yes, even reach. It’s been our experience that behind a critic’s behavior lies a struggle with pain, bitterness, regret, and/or resentment—emotions they almost certainly have never laid at the feet of Jesus. These burdens hinder their service and leave them sidelined.

But for the grace of God, any one of us could be that bitter soul in church. Ask God to present an opportunity for you to minister grace to a critical spirit. Teach them diligently in word and deed. Approach them after the manner of Ephesians 4:3-5, and watch the Holy Spirit break down walls, and heal wounds.

…before long, they might even join you on the field!

We’re praying for healing and a unified spirit in your church, beloved. Until next time… be steadfast, unmoveable & always abounding!